It is becoming apparent that the cultural divergence is widening and that we are more American and Western than we were 20 years ago. Let's consider my brother-in-law's recent engagement where he insisted on returning to Karachi, Pakistan for a traditional ceremony. He was briefed by his buddies in Karachi that he would be getting "Salami." He was amused that such processed meats are a part of traditional Pakistani events. Salami is money that Pakistani elders give their kids on weddings/engagements :-)